First time mums and mothersparsh!

Pregnancy nausea

The first nausea, the first dilemma in life that leaves you both scared and excited at the same time, those first tears you get in your eyes that’s not because of pain, but something eternally devine! Those sleepless, restless nights which have loads of promises of happiness attached to it. Those moments of uncomfortable and weird things happening to yourself but you love them all the same. Those times when someone’s kick never hurts you, and finally that time when the most severe pains in the hospital doesn’t make you weak, rather evolve you as a stronger person, a better version of yourself, a mother!

First time mum

Yes, I am talking about the epic journey of pregnancy commencing with those nauseas and ending with a bundle of joy wrapped in your arms. Remember, the feeling when you smell the sweet scent of the little one and felt your fragrance get reflected in another human being? Do you recollect the first feeling of considering yourself more than a woman, loving yourself as a mother of somebody?

First time Mums

The fear that arises simultaneously with this unique excitement is natural. You suddenly get a small being in your hand who’s totally dependent upon you even for their minute needs. That fear you feel first time in your life very severely. But, that’s where your strength evolves too. You decide to care for the little one more than yourself and suddenly you are engrossed in their needs more than of your own.

That’s motherhood! The limitless caring and love for your baby and the feeling to make the world stoop to your child’s happiness and needs. While you are busy recovering from your post pregnancy changes of your body, you also are busy in meeting the unstoppable demands of this innocent little fellow. The support you get in this time of your life is precious and totally unforgettable throughout your life. Not anyone except the most trusted people of your life are permitted to help you in this journey of motherhood.

That’s when you even choose the baby products you use for the baby with so much care and the brand that you trust the most. It’s not a surprise that the products you use for the baby are those which are delicate on their skin, just as the babies are! Care for their newly soft skin, just as you care for them. Feels on their body just as a mother’s touch, a mother’s Sparsh!

Mother Sparsh water wipes

That’s what I trust the most when it comes to my little angel, Mother Sparsh. A baby care products brand that’s renown for being gentle on my baby’s skin and carry no harmful chemicals that could adverse effect on her skin. The first ever watery wipes from Mother’s Sparsh gently cleanses her delicate skin while leaving a soft fragrance thus guaranteeing hundred perfect safe and hygienic for my little one. Those wipes which are paraben and alcohol free, hypoallergenic, PH balanced and hence prevents even the remotest chances of diaper rashes. That leaves me so relieved when it comes to skin care and diaper cleaning process of my baby.Its definitely  the touch that I trust! The first touch that touches my baby the same way I do, with care, with gentleness!

Lets inculcate Creativity In Kids!

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Adding in creativity in our kid’s life!

We are all always excited whenever we get a new home and especially when we have our little ones too! Kids always do glorify our lives. This is a special feeling that only parents tend to relate to.

Excitement always has a new level when we aspire to design a sweet little bedroom for our kids. But, do you know while you design a room for your kid, you are actually playing a part in weaving their future?

Dedicating a corner for their creativity in their rooms!

The secret is to give them a varied choice of options within their vicinity and check what’s the most that grab their attention. Well, then the next time you design or redesign your home, make sure you include a corner in your kid’s bedroom wherein you have all these options are gathered in one place.

Encouraging reading habits!

Just along the studying desk, make a small library or a bookshelf and make sure you stock in books of different interests going from fairy tales to history, economics and literature. I know today’s kids are not so prone to reading, thanks to the digitalisation that brought about watt pad app and kindles for that matter, but still, let them get a habit of reading books a little for an improved language and educational skills.

Adding colours to life!

Next, make sure you provide with some of the painting and colouring options. Sometimes, kids reveal their thoughts and feelings in forms of drawings and paintings.

Practical play!

Clay modelling toys, the papercraft can also be given some places out here. With all that craft accessories., they often experiment some DIY techniques and art too. Let them have and enjoy a pet fish, cat or any other animals that are less messy to handle and have them independently look after it.

Learning to stay in groups!

You can also add some group playing games out there like a monopoly, UNO so that the kid knows the value of group interacting too. These are some, you can add as many options as you like, the idea is to make for them a heavenly corner that refreshes them when they are too stressed studying when they want to know their skills when they want to learn a lot more than just academics and sports.

A mobile free childhood!

AND the most prominent reason for the creation is to get the kids back from the magic spell of mobiles and tablets. Today’s kid’s childhood is literally trapped in the cells of the online world. The screen time they spent browsing through social sites and media channels are killing their creative and intellectual skills.

If through this simple steps, they can actually spend some time leaving the screen behind, it’ll surely benefit them a lot to become a happier and successful person henceforward!

Bio:
Hi,
I am Saba irfan ladha, an Indian food, fashion, travel and lifestyle blogger. I am also an active instagrammer and a connoisseur on Zomato. I love to explore everything around me and replay the same in the most creative manner in my blogs. Do follow me for more details on:

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Four vital ways of understanding and dealing with neglected kids .

Knowing our kids better!

Kids are the most innocent and transparent beings on earth! They are alien with the knowledge of duplicating their emotions for everyone or at any specific time. But still, these kids, especially those within the age group of 5 to 15 years can control or hide more than 90% of their feelings from their parents or teachers.

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Sensitive kids!!

These kids are mostly those who are suffering from a certain type of emotional or physical stress or have a peer pressure that’s too dominating. We as parents, often get confused or are at a total loss when it comes to guessing out these signs and more often end up with kids those are too lonely or too adamant during their teens.

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Here are certain signs which may help each of the parent to know when their little children get grown up so much emotionally that they begin to manipulate their emotions and behaviour and which is not at all normal at such a tender age and may lead to mandate counselling sessions in future.

Signs to get aware!

Most of the children start feeling insecure when they’re expecting a sibling in their house or immediately after the entry of a new sibling in their life. This reason is the most prominent one in any such kid’s life. Now, you may be thinking how can you guess if the behavioural pattern of the kid has changed? So, let me tell you it’s not quite that easy because these kids, especially after the birth of the new child, tend to get quite reserved nature and acquire solace in loneliness.They may be exact normal while talking or behaving but, would usually stare from one parent to another when the new kids make some new gesture which is a reason of pleasure for his parents. They usually do more than excellent in studies stop sharing their daily tales with parents and even hiding some major incidents of their life sometimes. The one major symptom of this neglecting us bedwetting. This entirely normal kid will start bedwetting at nights at a consistent base mostly because he feels neglected or avoided.

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Tackle is wisely!

Such type of kids needs grooming up. Let them know and understand slowly from the pronate period itself that there’s someone coming in his life who would be just like him and will share his parents and most importantly love him like no one else does. Let him be a leader and tell him that your younger sibling would be dependent on you.Let him take part in the preparations of the baby and prepare a nice hub for his baby friend coming. After the birth, there is 70% chance that the kid would be prepared for the smaller version, but still would be in a chaos if the attention is divided.

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Be their company!

So, make sure you spent more than quarter of your time and energy on the elder one and less than a quarter on the younger one.Because the younger is too small to take notice of it and the elder needs it desperately.

Warning bells!

The second type is the one where kids are prone to notice a lot of aggressive fights and quarrels at home and get scared or silent because of it. The majority of such cases the children adapt either one of the parent’s behaviour. He becomes very aggressive or simply dumb. The major symptoms show when these kids face a major decline in their appetite and spent lesser time at home or interact very less with the family members. Such kids enjoy others children’s company and their house patterns and often start comparing and complaining about it. Their academics may fall rapidly and they tend to make friends with books or pads as nowadays or even get more than close to their pets. There are 90% chances that as adults such kid’s face an extreme hatred about their families.

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Deal with patience!

Dealing with such kids can be done by simply quitting the quarrels or diverting them when their not in front and create a pleasant environment at home. If you are a single parent or moving out of marriage simply talk to them. They are kids but can surely notice and understand the situations better than us if we try to explain them calmly. Try being soft on them when they imitate those aggressive behavioural patterns and it’s better if such kids are made busy in some vigorous physical activities.

The insecure ones!

Third ones are those kids who have been suffering some kind of physical or emotional exploitation within or out of the house. These types are very sensitive ones. They are sometimes so submerged in insecurity feelings that they tend to behave like a totally different person of what they actually are. They tend to either become too quiet or dull or too confident and start bullying everyone else than who is exploiting them. Their academics may either decrease rapidly or increase too rapidly. Depends on what behavioural patterns they have opted for. These kids often would stop abruptly while chatting with you and then behave as if nothing happened. They are mostly seen talking to mirror or their images or unhuman things a lot and mostly retreat to painting as a medium to express their feelings in such a way that no one understands

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but they have let out themselves.

Trickiest to understand!

These kids are trickiest to understand & as the results of the exploitation are totally& opposite. But, as parents, I am sure you will understand what category they may be in. Let them take it out. Speak a lot with them. Be a friend to them. Ask them to take part in family matters and try to boost their confidence in a pleasant way. After these, there are 80% chances that the kid will speak out his heart and you will find a way out of it.

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The bullied kids!

And the fourth ones are those kids with a peer pressure that is so dominating either physically or emotionally that they leave your kid into remaking their personality in a totally new way that’s either matching their demands or them in any way. These kids start lying in their homes very frequently and in such an innocent way that’s difficult to catch. Their friends teach them all. Their academics fall rapidly and they may be a major reason for other’s uncomfortable with loads of complaints raining on parents. Studies say 70% of the kids smoke or start drugs due to extensive peer pressure or imitation. They ask for a lot of money at home lying with an impressive fluency and are mostly seen away or careless of the family and home. They tend to become selfish and adamant in a period of time.

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Just shower love and attention!

These kids need love and fear at the same time. Love them and show them your love can make them a pleasant person once again. And scare them a little so that they may at least think twice before doing something unpleasant in future. Try mixing them up more in family matters.
So, these are the certain actions and reactions that may help you build a secure and happy relationship with your kid and make way for a happy adult in future. Remember, kids, are a soft clay dough gifted to us. Mould them properly before they get moulded with hard outside air and hit us ahead in time.

Bio:
Hi,
I am Saba irfan ladha, an Indian food, fashion, travel and lifestyle blogger. I am also an active instagrammer and a connoisseur on Zomato. I love to explore everything around me and replay the same in the most creative manner in my blogs. Do follow me for more details on:

My Blog, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, Facebook page, zomato

Or mail me at Saba.ladha7@gmail.com.